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Lilia Mansfield Hayes Hood

Ayer: Lilia Mansfield Hayes Hood, , formerly of Ayer, died Friday, February 17, 2012, at her home.

Lilia Mansfield Hayes HoodWith great sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of our mother Lily. She passed in her home Feb, 17th 2012 after a long and fulfilling life. Now reunited with her children Robert A. Mansfield Jr., Ronald A. Mansfield, and grandchildren Russell A. Mansfield Jr., Chilee A. Mansfield, Darcy L. Mansfield.

Our Mother is survived by her loved ones Russell Mansfield and Sandra Murphy, Jim and Dolly Sylvester, Kenny and Diana “Cookie” Lambert and Randy Mansfield all of Lunenburg Mass. Michael Hayes of Cathedral City, Ca., Raymond Hayes of Pt. Charlotte, Florida., Patty and Ricky Stanley and Dottie and Carles Helmandollar of Spotsylvania, Va. She leaves her grandchildren Heather, Bobby, Josh, Oliver, Caleb, Daniel, Jacob, Jason, Sarah, Shaylin, Joshua, James, Heather, Randy, Ronna, Alexandria, Nicole, Rayna, Andy, Michael, Raymond, Justin and Carlee. Great grandchildren Jordan, Jozie, Dylan, Julia, Tearra, Tyler, Tommy, Kylie, Isaac, Kyle, Jack, Andrew, Madelyn, Jared, Michael and Elisabeth. Mother also leaves two sisters, Martha Hernandez of Mexico, and Clementina Oraduena of Colorado.

Lilia was born in Acapulco, Mexico, May 15, 1934, a daughter of Paulo and Juanita (Villanueva) Bailon Hernandez. She resided in Ayer before retiring. Lilia was one of the first women in Ayer to own and operate a business, The Millstream Restaurant and Lounge, for over 25 yrs. She was a member of St. Mary’s Church in Ayer.

Arrangements

Following a funeral Mass at 10 am Friday, February 24th at St. Mary’s Church, 31 Shirley Street, Ayer, our Mother will be laid to rest at Woodlawn Cemetery, Harvard Road, Ayer.

Calling hours are 5-8 Thursday February 23 at the T.J. Anderson & Son Funeral Home, 25 Fitchburg Road, (Rte 2A) Ayer. Please see www.andersonfuneral.com for additional information.


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  • Fr. Mike Backlund

    Calaveras County, California
    March 3, 2012 7:23 pm

    I stand with you, Mike, and with all your family and friends in this time of loss, and I want to add my own condolences to those eloquent expressions written by those going before me here in the guest book. I am sorry that I learned of this sadness so late upon my return from Central America. I know I only met your mom once, but I remember her gracious kindness and her warmth and her smile. I am grateful I had at least that chance to meet her so long ago and to experience her vitality and enthusiasm. No one ever gets over the grief of losing someone so loved and so important in one’s life, but I pray that your mind and heart will one day turn only to remembrances of all that made her so special to you and the good and wonderful moments you had together. She will be in my intentions at the next Mass I celebrate all the while knowing she is already enfolded in eternal love. Mike, you are one of my most favorite friends in all the world, and I send much love to you and to all your many friends and family.


  • Daniel Brower

    Angels Camp, CA
    March 2, 2012 2:40 pm

    Lilia was quite a woman. I will never forget when I first met her on my visit to Ayer with Mike in 1985. She was so kind and welcoming to me. Her passion for living was infectious. And, those Margaritas by the blender full were wonderful. May she rest in peace.


  • Cookie Lambert

    Lunenburg Ma.
    February 26, 2012 9:03 pm

    When I was a child there was so many children in my family it was hard to get that special relationship. As I growup and the other kids move on then we got to know one another. We grew closer when she live at the club house and I work in Ayer. I would go over her house every day. On the weekends we would shop 900am until 900pm it was good times but expensive.
    Then she moved to Florida and I would only visit once a year, and I miss her so much. When we went to Florida we had the best of times, for the short amount of time I spent there and I miss her so.
    Then it happen and she had an a major stroke and I miss her so. Then she move to Virginia to my younger sister Dottie’s house, so Dottie could care for her. And I miss her so. Now she could hardly talk I could not understand her on the phone she had to stay in bed. I when down couple times a year and visit . And I miss her so much , she would tell me she loved me.
    Then she died and was returned home and I will go and plant her plants at her grave. I will always love and miss her dearly. xoxo cookie


  • Dawn and Bob Nims

    Wilmington
    February 24, 2012 8:59 am

    To Rusty, Sandy and family…my thoughts and prayers are with your family today.


  • Joshua Lambert

    Wiliamstown Ky.
    February 23, 2012 6:15 pm

    Grandma was an extordinary woman and it would take forever to try to describe her, so I’ll just share a few memories, and pieces of my heart in regards to her. Grandmother was the strongest woman I have ever had the privilage of knowing. She had the absolute biggest heart. I lived with her a few times in my life and in those times she taught me alot. She was about hard work, doing things right, and did her very best to pass that belief on to us. We used to play cards all day long when I was a kid. We all went to shaddy point with her, and created many very plesant memories. When I lived in Florida with her, we went to church every Sunday, to yard sales, shopping, and English classes twice a week. She was always there for me no matter what. Grandma and I were very close and I will always love and cherish the time we had together. She will truly be missed.


  • Alma Balanzar

    Brookline,MA
    February 23, 2012 3:13 pm

    My family and I are very sad of Tia Lilia’s passing. She was an incredible woman. May god bless her and may she rest in peace. She will be in our prayers.
    Much Love,
    The Balanzar Family

    Te queremos mucho Tía Lilia


  • Dottie Helmandollar

    Spotsylvania Va.
    February 22, 2012 7:36 pm

    Thank you all for your kind words and prayers. My Mother was an amazing woman. She could light up a room with her beautiful smile. She loved deeply and unconditionally. I will never forget the sacrafices she made for me and my brothers and sisters. Our family will not be the same without her. She was our sunshine, our rock. I know that she is at peace now, and may she settle into her angle wings nicely. :) We must move forward now, I pray for our family to stay strong and continue to love eachother as much as we do right now this day. Rest your head Mommy, we will be
    okay. Te Quiero Mucho. Always your little girl,
    Dottie xoxo


  • Brian Darwin

    11595 Huston St. North Hollywood, ca.
    February 22, 2012 4:14 pm

    My heartfelt greetings and sincere condolences to Mike Hayes and family in the passing of Lilly. I truly do have some fond memories of her out on the lake fishing, wearing her big floppy hat, and her excitement when any one caught a beautiful black drum, {Mike’s favorite} or red snapper. Then we would take them back to Mike’s beautiful hacienda with the 243 feet of rip/rap seawall surrounding his property, and barbeque them up. To Lillies’ amazement, she could not believe that I just didn’t care to eat the fish, but sure did enjoy the thrill of catching them. Lilly, may the Lord welcome you into His loving arms forever. God bless the entire family and comfort you all. Sincerely Brian Darwin


  • Ricy L. James

    Cathedral City Ca.
    February 22, 2012 2:24 pm

    May Gods love and comfort wrap around you and your family through this time of loss.


  • Rene Cavalier

    Catherdral Caty Ca.
    February 22, 2012 12:10 pm

    Lilia, God be with you till we meet again, Rene


  • Michael William Hayes

    Palm Springs,CA
    February 22, 2012 6:17 am

    My Mom will be missed dearly, by whole lot of people. Her special love will remain with ud as long as we keep her close to our hearts. My Mother last wishes including that we all Love each other and to take care of each other. Which will be a challeged but with alittle encouragement I believe its possible. In advance I want to Thank everyone for their kind words and prayers during this difficult time. Love to all of you, MIKE HAYES


  • David Skinner

    Catherdral Caty Ca.
    February 22, 2012 12:58 am

    So sorry for loss of your mother. My deepest sympathy. May god bless you all.


  • February 22, 2012 12:52 am

    My heart aches for your family and I pray that God gives you strength during this difficult time. Although I was never able to know Lilia on a personal level, it was clear to see that she a woman with a beauty that time never seemed to have touched. Her ability to raise a large family all while running a business speaks volumes about her level of strength, drive and determination. I was fortunate enough to have a few fond memories of Lilia shared with me over the years and am amazed at the amount of wisdom and foresight she carried and passed down to her children. She had a long and fulfilling life and will be greatly missed by many. May she forever rest in peace and paradise.

    Love and prayers,

    Cheri


  • Christian Butler

    Catlett, Va
    February 20, 2012 9:18 pm

    I wish I had the opportunity to meet and get to know Lilia but I know in my heart that she is in a great place and is able to do the things she loves again!

    My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

    With Love! Chris


  • Carl Helmandollar and Margie Webb

    Adel ga.
    February 19, 2012 5:28 pm

    May she rest in peace, our hearts are with the family,
    God Bless.