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Gary A. GarafolaTownsend: Gary A. Garafola, 57, of Ripple Road, died Saturday, September 22, 2012, at Nashoba Valley Medical Center, Ayer.
Besides his mother of Waterbury, he leaves his wife of 33 years, Lynne C. (Burrill) Garafola; five children, Keith A. Garafola and his wife, Jennifer, of North Andover, Lee G. Garafola, Kimberly L. Garafola, Paul M. Garafola and Jeffrey A. Garafola all of Townsend; three brothers, Albert Garafola and his wife, Terry, of Waterbury, CT, Pasquale Garafola and his wife, Lois, of Southington, CT and David Garafola and his wife, Denise, of Wolcott, CT. He also leaves several nieces and nephews. Most recently, Mr. Garafola had been employed by the Concord/Carlisle Public School System as a school bus driver and a Driver Education Instructor, entertaining the kids with a variety of vibrant shoes, a hat of the week and a question of the day. Over the past few summers he also worked with the Marcus Lewis Day Camp at Devens. Through the years he enjoyed the friends he made while building an Amway Business. Gary was an active member of St. John the Evangelist Church in Townsend. He volunteered his time with the Santa Claus Program sponsored by the Townsend VFW and with the Boy Scout Program while two of his kids earned the rank of Eagle. Gary lived life with energy and enthusiasm and would want his life to be celebrated; his family knows he will be missed by all. ArrangementsA funeral Mass will be celebrated 10:30AM Friday, September 28th at St. John the Evangelist Church, One School Street, Townsend. Calling hours are 4 to 8 PM Thursday at the T. J. Anderson & Son Funeral Home, 250 Main St. (Townsend Center), Townsend. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, P.O. Box 1000, Dept. 142, Memphis, TN 38148-0142. Sign GuestBook Print Guestbook |
Mr. Garafola was born in Waterbury, CT November 29, 1954, a son of Ann (Sciascia) and the late Albert R. Garafola. He was a 1973 graduate of Holy Cross High School in Waterbury and continued his education at Bentley College in Waltham where he majored in Marketing Management.
Nancy Cormier
October 23, 2012 5:25 pm
Lynne,
I am so sorry to hear about Gary – I don’t know what else to say – my heart aches for you ……..
Nancy
Kate Branch
Chapel Hill, NC
October 12, 2012 7:03 pm
Lynne and kids,
I am so sorry for your loss. I just don’t even know what else to say. Gary will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Kate
david and Elaine McKechnie
gloucester, Ma.
October 7, 2012 8:05 pm
Dear Lynne and Family:
We are so soory to hear of the loss of Gary. Please know that are prayers are with you and your family and may God continue to hold you and comfort you.
Sincerely, David and Elaine
Raymond and Brenda Andro
Thomaston Ct
October 1, 2012 10:00 am
To Aunt Anna and all the family,
Gary was a wonderful example of the best that a family man could be. All the accolades and warm wishes from so many are testimonal to what a good man he was and the legacy he left behind. You have much to be proud of and may you take comfort in knowing that.
Ed and Debbie Kelly and family
Townsend
October 1, 2012 9:47 am
We offer our sincere sympathy to your family and we offer our prayers for Gary. May the Garafola family be strengthened by the belief that “His Steadfast Love Endures Forever”.
Karen Lorden
Pepperell, MA
September 30, 2012 6:15 pm
My deepest sympathies to the special Garafola Family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bob and Lois Kraviz
Hudson, NH
September 29, 2012 8:19 pm
The loss of Gary is tremendous loss to many, many people. He touched the lives of everyone he met. He was so much fun to be with. We enjoyed many hours with Gary and his family. If you met Gary you would also know his family.
The shock of his loss will not heal for many years to come. We miss him so much!
Lorna Fitzgerald Weingart
Watertown, CT
September 29, 2012 2:23 pm
Lynne & Family… “Garf” was always a ray of sunshine. He was part of our “High School Family of Friends”..who all had such a special bond, and made some wonderful memories together. Although life took us on separate paths after college, I still thought about him often. The wonderful tributes to him do not surprise me, and bring a smile to my face. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Charles and Gloria Vogel
Vero Beach, Florida
September 29, 2012 1:47 pm
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our daughter, Amanda Vogel, use to play French Horn with your son at NMRHS. Our family sends its sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Charlie and Gloria Vogel
Mark and Amanda Vogel
Katie
Durham
September 29, 2012 1:30 am
Jeff and family,
I am so incredibly sorry for what you all are going through now. I knew Gary as a very spirited member of Sandy Island. Jeff and I work together at Sandy, and it was so obvious how much he lit up when it was his family’s week. Hope you are doing okay, stay strong and Gary and you all are in my prayers. Sandy Island is here for you whenever you need us. Love you Jeff, I’m here for you! Xx
Funaiole family
Townsend
September 28, 2012 7:07 pm
It has all been said better by others. His whole being smiled. We will miss him for many reasons. We have been keeping all of you in our prayers.
Katherine Jasmine
Shirley MA
September 28, 2012 3:27 pm
Lynne, I was so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your husband, Gary. My heart goes out to you, along with prayers of healing and comfort. May your memories sustain you.
Sincerely, Katherine
Irene D'Almeida DeLuca
Coconut Creek Florida
September 28, 2012 3:21 pm
To the Garafola Family,
I was very sadened to hear about your tragic loss. I’m sorry that our families had not kept in touch over the years. Gary must have been a remarkable man.
My deepest condolences.
Mardi Hutchinson
Concord MA
September 28, 2012 6:46 am
Dear Garafola Family,
I am a teacher and a parent in Concord, so I knew Gary in both respects. He was a friendly and happy guy who always made the ride on the bus a fun one. More recently my daughter, Sarah, had the pleasure of driving with him. He was known as a tough but fair instructor who wanted the kids to learn well the rules of the road. Sarah was with another driver last Friday and was hit from behind, although she was rattled she kept her appointment with Gary on Saturday. He was comforting and encouraging and even stopped by a roadside stand and bought her some honey. He showed her kindness that none of my family will ever forget. Our family and communtiy are very saddened at his loss and we offer our greatest condolences. He will be missed.
Pascal cushing
Bolton MA
September 27, 2012 11:05 pm
Dear Lynne and family,
I can’t find the words to express the shock and sadness I felt when I learned about Gary’s accident and eventual passing and this is not the way I would choose to reconnect with you. Ellen and I are keeping you in prayer as this is the one meaningful way to support you. As I read the obituary above, I was able to find a smile in the description given to Gary’s work as a school bus driver because that is exactly how I remembered him, he loves kids. I have very fond memories of him and you all back in the days of going to functions. I especially remember Keith (didn’t he get started in the business?) and one of your daughters (the soccer player) and of course, Lynne. Gary was an amazing person and he now rests with an amazing God where his loved ones will join them some day. Love and blessings, Pascal
mccarthy,
dunstable. formerly fordway rd. utownsend
September 27, 2012 10:41 pm
Chuck, kathy, scott, brian are so saddened by gary’s sudden death. I will always remember gary’s infectious smile. Gary and lyn raised a terrific family together. May god’s grace be with you.
Love, the mccarthy’s
Ellen Davis
September 27, 2012 10:13 pm
I work at Willard School, and whenever I went out to the busses, Mr. G. would be standing outside his bus with a big smile on his face waiting for his kids. The kids truly loved him and couldn’t wait to see him each day.
My deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends…please know he will be missed.
Surekha and Vilas Bhade
Acton, MA
September 27, 2012 9:56 pm
Our sincere condolences to Garafola family. Gary was much loved by all the kids.
Andy Penfield
Keene, NH
September 27, 2012 9:45 pm
Gary was always smiling, happy and positive. He was so much more than a bus driver for the Marcus Lewis Day Camp. He was always singing on the bus and kids really enjoyed his upbeat attitude. His genuine love for life and caring about everyone will be missed. Prayers go out to his family. He will be missed!
The Larew Family
Concord Massachusetts
September 27, 2012 9:37 pm
Dear Garafola Family,
We are absolutely heartbroken to learn of your loss. Mr. G was my daughter’s kindergarten bus driver 3 years ago. What an absolute joy it was to see the bus pulling up to house with Mr. G wearing a wig or funny hat. His kindness and sense of humor made my daughter thrilled to ride home on his bus, and as a parent I can’t tell you how much it meant to me to have such a wonderful person be a part of her day to day life. We stayed in touch with Mr. G over the years, seeing him at Willard and at all the Concord School Committee meetings when they were trying to outsource our busing. My daughter and I ran into him at Willard just last Wednesday. We were so happy to see him, gave him a big hug and spoke about how fast kids grow up. I am so thankful for that. Mr. G will be missed greatly by his many friends in Concord.
We send you our sincere condolences.
Yours truly,
Allison Larew
AlejoFamily
Winchester, Ma
September 27, 2012 9:31 pm
Love and prayers to the Garafola Family. We’re so sorry for your loss. God will comfort you in this moment of grief.
John & Sandra Tuttle
Port Saint Lucie, FL
September 27, 2012 8:25 pm
We’re so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.
Cousin John J. Tuttle, Jr.
(Son of Norma Garafola Tuttle)
Kathy Brannigan
Groton formerly of Townsend
September 27, 2012 8:05 pm
Lee, My condolences to you and all your family. Your Dad was a easy going, happy, fun loving father. May you all find peace and comfort during this tragic time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace and forever shine upon you all.
Max Gordon
Lowell, MA
September 27, 2012 7:19 pm
My son Parker and his fellow bus riders to/from MLDC during the summer(s) thought the world of the man they nicknamed “Orb.” He encouraged it, and let them touch his head (for luck?), but more than that, he encouraged THEM with his banter, his smiles, and his warmth. While our sadness cannot come close to your, please know that Gary’s passing is a loss for everyone, for he made the world a better place just by being in it.
The Bogue Family
Asbhy, MA
September 27, 2012 6:17 pm
Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow, especially Paul who grew up with my girls. You are in our prayers.
Mrs. B., Anna & Katie
Tony and Mary Lang
Templeton, MA
September 27, 2012 5:45 pm
Lynne and Family. Our love and prayers are sent your way. We are so sorry for your loss. Our years as part of your networking family will never be forgotten. Gary will live on in the wonderful family he helped to raise and in the hearts of all of us that loved him. You will all be in our thoughts as you travel through this sad time. Good memories will get you through. We love you. Tony and Mary
Sue Ann & Bert Woolfrey
Townsend, MA
September 27, 2012 5:18 pm
I remember early morning paper deliveries and the love that Gary showed to his family and others at St.John’s. Seeing your family gathered together at Mass was always so inspirational. Love & prayers are with you all.
Sharon McGregor
Concord, MA
September 27, 2012 3:58 pm
Our deepest sympathy to Gary’s family. Margaret (fourth grade) and our family met Gary for the first time this school year when he added our road to his route. We just started to get to know “Mr. G” and could see how kind and fun he was to the kids and to their families. Our three-year old, Grace, liked to give him flowers she picked for him when he stopped, and they had some cute conversation. Gary surely knew how to engage young and old alike with his contagious smile and antics, like the beanie hat with the propeller and the bouncy “Tigger” hat he wore. While Gary entered our lives for just a brief time, we have been touched by his congeniality, fun-loving nature, and gentleness, and we will remember him. We wish Gary’s family happy memories and peace, for the beautiful life he lived and the many, many lives he touched and brightened.
With thanks to Gary and sympathy for his loving family,
The McGregors
Evelyn & Joe DeLouchrey
Greenville
September 27, 2012 3:57 pm
We are both so sorry for your loss you are in our prayers
The Stanton Family
Townsend, MA
September 27, 2012 3:39 pm
Our heartfelt thoughts & prayers are with your family at this time. May all of the happy memories that you shared together help you through this difficult time, now and in the days ahead.
God Bless!
Charlene Shultz
Plymouth, Ma
September 27, 2012 2:47 pm
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with your entire family.
Gary was always welcoming, positive and real. He could always bring a smile and lighten your day. I know he will be forever with you in spirit for he shared so much with all.
Harry & Betty Stilphen & family
DeLand,florida
September 27, 2012 2:26 pm
all the stilphens from sandy island are very sorry for your loss.
Dana Drury and family
Dunstable,Ma
September 27, 2012 1:09 pm
Our thoughts and prayers to you all!
Such a rare and unique man who could always give a smile and brighten your day. Gary left his mark on all he met.
We are thankful the moments we knew him.
Peace.
September 27, 2012 12:59 pm
lynn and family, i am so very sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
The Robinson Family
Pepperel
September 27, 2012 12:56 pm
Our hearts are broken. Gary was a wonderful person who gave much to many. May God hold you in his arms and help you heal. You are all in our prayers and thoughts. Please consider our home open to all of you if you need a friend to listen or just be by your side.
Gary is with you now and always.
Jodi, Wayne, Alyssa, Jen, Brandon and Derek
Dafne & Charlie Cimino
Lexington, Massachusetts
September 27, 2012 12:53 pm
Gary was a source of so many things for us: advice, friendship, humor & many more. We will always hold dear the memories of times when we saw him at various gatherings; always a big smile and a warm “hello”.
Our hearts go out to Lynne and the rest of the family at this time. Just as he will be sorely missed, he will be strongly remembered with love, warmth and affection.
Dafne & Charlie
The Muthig Family
Sandy Island
September 27, 2012 11:15 am
A very sad day for a wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jim, Mary, Ben, Cara, Asa and Mya Muthig
Devon Ward
Natick, MA
September 27, 2012 10:59 am
I have known Gary since I was born, and he was always one of the most vibrant personalities I anxiously looked forward to seeing at our beloved Sandy Island each year. I am stunned by the sudden loss of so great a man, and while it will never be the same without his infectious smile and laugh brightening everyone’s days, his memory will live on in our hearts and minds, and the thought of him will always bring a smile to my face on a gloomy day. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Garafola family in this most difficult time, and words cannot describe how sorry I am for your loss. I hope that you may find strength and solace in the kind words and open arms of your friends and loved ones.
Dave,Denise,Brian and Christine
wolcott,ct
September 27, 2012 10:34 am
After reading all these special tributes to my brother,has everybody forgotten about his cars and perpetual tardiness? Super guy, super brother. I will remember and cherish all that you were. You were the life of the party and the light of our lives!
Patti Janes
Townsend
September 27, 2012 10:33 am
I am so sorry for your loss of Gary. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
Richards and Connie Ssemakula
Lowell, MA
September 27, 2012 10:07 am
We will surely miss you Gary. Condolences to the Garafola family. He taught us to love life, be happy, have a positive attitude and to love what you do. He could brighten even the gloomiest of days and he made everyone feel important and significant. We will remember you Gary.
Christopher S. Holland, MD
N Potomac, MD
September 27, 2012 10:02 am
We are thinking about Gary and keeping his family in our prayers.
Holland Family
Lew and Andrea Colten
Framingham, MA
September 27, 2012 10:01 am
We all will miss Gary, he was an inspiration to all who had the prigilage in knowing him.
God bless and may all who knew him take comfort in knowing that he is with our Lord.
The Crory Family
Townsend
September 27, 2012 9:25 am
Gary always had a smile on his face and a fun story to tell. We will miss your presence around the neighborhood. My condolenses to Lynn, Keith, Kim, Lee, Paul, and Jeff.
The Patterson's Miki, Becca and Shawn
Berlin MA
September 27, 2012 8:55 am
When I think of Gary I can’t help but smile. He brought that out in you. Joy, fun, friendship!
Love to you all.
Jerry Moss
CCHS
September 27, 2012 8:46 am
Gary drove our boys swim team to long island a few years back. what a pleasure it was getting to know him. The ride was anything but dull. Great conversations during the ride, at meals, in the hotel. Gary was a true professional who enthusiastically loved his job. He will be missed by all of the students, athletes and coaches that he has transported over the years. Rest In Peace Gary. Jerry Moss
Sally DeGan
Winchester
September 27, 2012 8:03 am
“The Orb” as my son remembers him from Marcus Lewis was the bright spot in every day. We are so sorry for your loss but also so grateful the imprint he has left on so many lives.
Matt & Teri Gerlach
Hollis, NH
September 27, 2012 7:54 am
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Gary was a good man. He always greeted us with a smile. Your whole family is in our thoughts.
June Popielarz/ The Grummer children
Sudbury
September 26, 2012 10:03 pm
We are so sorry to hear of Gary’s passing. My children go to Marcus Lewis and remember Gary driving them back and forth to the Lake. My daughter in particular liked Gary because he always greeted her by name and they waved to each other when she would get off the bus. She says it just won’t be the same without him.
Sara and Jack Joy
Pepperell, Ma
September 26, 2012 9:25 pm
Keith, Lee, Kim, Paul, and Jeff,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time for your family. Your loving memories of your father will give you strength.
Debbie & Kevin Lique
Ormond Beach, FL
September 26, 2012 9:24 pm
Lynne,
Kevin and I can’t begin to tell you how sorry we were to hear about Gary. We still laugh over the little newlywed couple that moved in across the street from us so many years ago, and remember our adventures as the Ripple Roaders. We will never forget our family trips with you both down the Kancamagus, Sandy Island in the freezing cold, the teeney-weeny cabin on Lake George and of course Kevin & Gary’s, Paul Bunyan lumberjack attempt. They slept in the car in the woods in order to be first in line to cut down a tree with their brand new, unsharpened chain saw.
We know the memories of the many years you had together will eventually get you through this terrible time. We send you our strength and support.
Kenney Family
Groton, MA
September 26, 2012 9:21 pm
Words will never describe how much I will miss my best friend, big brother, and co-worker. There was never a more genuine man than Gary. He would be there for you anytime you needed a friend,a laugh or a shoulder to lean on. When you were down and out, Gary knew just what to say, or more often, do, to make you laugh again. My heart go’s out to his lovely wife Lynn, and his children. Kim, Keith, Lee, Paul and Jeff,your dad loved you all so much and was so very proud of each one of you. He will always and forever live on in our hearts. Knowing Gary,he will be one of those “ANGELS”, that pop in on us all the time and make his presence known somehow. I love ya my friend, and am truly honored to have had you in mine and my families lives. Loving thoughts and prayers from all the Kenney’s to you and your family.
Barbara Holland
Gaithersburg, MD
September 26, 2012 9:18 pm
Please know that many, many people are
lifting all of the Garafolas in prayer.
Love,
The Hollands
The Onken Family
Acton, MA
September 26, 2012 9:06 pm
We were shocked and saddened to hear the news. Gary was our daughters’ bus driver for Marcus Lewis Day Camp. They both really appreciated Gary’s warmth and friendliness on all their trips, and often came home with stories about their bus rides and the fun he brought to the camp. My oldest called him “her best friend” there. We are very sorry for your loss and send our prayers.
Glenn & Liz Scanlon
Patterson, NY
September 26, 2012 9:00 pm
Life…..so fragile, Loss….so sudden, Heart’s….so broken,…in the wake of such a loss, we are haunted by things we don’t, and may never understand. Yet the solace we seek may not come from answers. So we look for comfort in the belief of love’s everlasting connection. May that love lift you and hold you close, and give you peace. Our love and prayers to you and your family.
Glenn and Liz
Ginja Piper-Boyer
Townsend
September 26, 2012 8:10 pm
So very sorry to hear about the loss of a wonderful husband and great father…My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
The Grube Family
Townsend
September 26, 2012 8:01 pm
Gary
Gary our Gary
A man from our town
From what I am told
God sure will crown
From what I have read
He is a Saint
His very close family
A picture to paint
I pray for his family
And pray for him too
I know this for certain
His intentions were true
Luke has come home
Let us rejoice
A message from God
His message of choice
Gary is now a bright shining star
Through a doorway we fear
He will never be far
Jane Spalding
Concord, ma
September 26, 2012 7:55 pm
I teach Kindergarten at Willard School, and was one of many lucky people to know Gary as a fine bus driver and a good friend. Always friendly and generally silly, Gary made everyone’s day better. I always knew that my students were safe and well cared for. Gary also made a point of getting to know everyone whose path he crossed, and always had a kind and cheerful thing to say. He was dedicated to his job and took pride in what and who he was. I will truly miss him as a member of the Willard community. He was a man who really did make a difference.
The Hogan Family
Concord, MA
September 26, 2012 7:47 pm
Gary was our son’s middle school bus driver. He was always very friendly, reliable, and a positive influence on the kids. Our son particularly remembers Gary’s odd collection of hats. We were so sorry to hear the news, and will truly miss seeing his familiar face.
Linda Tambascio Gibbons
Bedford, MA
September 26, 2012 6:42 pm
Lynne,
It’s so difficult to find the words to express my sadness. The words seem to fall into the empty pit in my stomach that’s been there since I heard of Gary’s death.
I will never forget him. His death is a loss to us all and to those who had never met him. I know that Gary lives on in the boys and Kimberly, and in your heart. It’s easy to see, from all the messages on this page, that Gary lives on in so many of us, too.
My thoughts are of you and the kids, and Gary’s mom. I send my deepest condolences.
George/Cheryl Koenemund
Waterbury
September 26, 2012 5:44 pm
We were so saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. We met your whole family at Thanksgiving last year, and remember Gary’s love of life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
The Melnickis
Townsend
September 26, 2012 4:18 pm
So very sorry for your loss of Gary. We will always remember his wonderful smile and love of family.May you know that all of your family will be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
jeanne amlaw
Somerville
September 26, 2012 3:57 pm
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. I know that so many people are shaking their heads in disbelief. I am so grateful for the amazing amount of fun that he brought into my life. Love and prayers to Lynne and the family.
Kate Roddy
Townsend, MA
September 26, 2012 3:23 pm
I met Gary through the Townsend VFW Santa program and had the good fortune of being his driver a couple years ago. I thought Gary genuinely embodied the spirit of Santa – he was kind, joyful, warm and generous. He took his time visiting the families at every home and shared with me some of his happy memories from the program though the years along our route.
My condolences to Gary’s family and friends. I hope you find comfort in knowing how much he touched the lives of everyone around him.
Jenn Cate
Pepperell MA
September 26, 2012 3:01 pm
I knew Gary from when I worked at Edward Jones in Townsend. He would always come in and chat and always had a smile on his face. He would cheer us up with his stories and make us laugh with his jokes. I remember him always talking about his children and what they were up to. He was a great guy and will be missed by many. My thoughts are with Lynne and his family.
Linda L. McCuddy
September 26, 2012 2:19 pm
Keith,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
God Bless!
Durette Family
Townsend
September 26, 2012 2:15 pm
How very shocking it is to hear that we lost Gary. He was a such a constant over the years, always full of energy…always focused on his family..always holding Lynn in his heart. Such a hard worker, such a good man. Giving a smile, support and positive word always…Never will replace that guy…Lynn,Keith,Lee,Kimberly,Paul and Jeffrey …sending you our love and prayers.
Linda, Denis, Matt,Jess & Emily
Bruce & Kathy Smith
September 26, 2012 2:15 pm
We were surprised and saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. This is a great loss to all who had the pleasure of knowing and loving him – he had such spirit and love of life. We will remember him as one “wild and crazy guy” as well as all the other roles he played in the Sandy Island
“talent” show. He was so loved and will be greatly missed. Our condolences to all his family and friends. He will never be forgotten.
The Vian Family
Westford, MA
September 26, 2012 1:39 pm
To our family, Gary was the smiling and welcoming face of Marcus Lewis Day Camp. We gave him our child every day of the summer and between drop-offs and pick-ups, we managed to get to know Gary. He was quick with a smile or joke and it was clear that all the children adored him including our son Erik. We will miss him dearly and feel it will be impossible for anyone to fill his colorful shoes. Our heartfelt condolences go to his family, many friends, and everyone touched by this wonderful man.
Sarah Spence
Belmont, MA
September 26, 2012 1:32 pm
My family and I are so sorry for your loss. My daughter rode the bus driven to Marcus Lewis Camp by Gary, and she adored him. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts are with your family.
Jackie Ouellet
Newton, MA
September 26, 2012 1:12 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. Sandy Island will not be the same without him there telling jokes and cheering on heated bocce matches. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Eubanks
Shirley Mass
September 26, 2012 12:47 pm
Words cannot express how heartsick I am. I will always remember Gary’s great, great sense of humor, his jokes , his stories and how much he truly loved his wife. He told me Lynne is his heart and I could see how much he loved his children. I thank the Garafola family for introducing me to the Amway business .I have wonderful fun memories. God bless you and your sweet kids Lynne.
Bob & Leah Goulet
Leominster, MA
September 26, 2012 12:36 pm
We are all so sorry to hear about Gary and we want the whole family to know you are in our prayers. We will always think of Gary as a great guy who offered his special smile and friendly “hello” every time we bumped into him. We had a great time in Scouting and at St. John’s and please know he will be missed.
Out thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Diana Delaney O'Hara
Framingham, MA
September 26, 2012 12:35 pm
Gary was the highlight of week 6 at Sandy Island and we will all miss him. He has left a wonderful family behind whom he loved so much.
From the Delaney, Blake, Gilmour, O’Hara family, we send our condolences and love to you all.
Courtney Holland
Bethesda, MD
September 26, 2012 11:57 am
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
the Holland Families
Lynda Craig-Bowes
Townsend,MA
September 26, 2012 11:53 am
Dear Lynne and Family
Please accept our sincere condolences.
The Bowes Family,Townsend,MA
Marron Ryan
Ashburnham
September 26, 2012 10:28 am
Lynn and family;
I am so sad to hear about Gary. When he came into the town hall to pay the taxes I would roll my eyes and say not you again. We would joke back and forth for a minute or two and then he would be off to another office. I enjoyed our talks each trying to one up the other. I met two of your sons and they were always polite. He tried to convince me he had a full head of curly hair like his son. I still have doubts. He seemed to love life and take things in stride. I will miss him truly.
Beverly Lucas
Concord
September 26, 2012 10:04 am
I am one of the secretaries at the Willard School. I have so many fond memories of Gary. Whenever he stopped by the office he always had a warm smile, funny story, crazy hat or wild shoes. One day he came in and had me convinced that he had a twin brother. Not only was he our driver for Bus 33, he also acted as a noon aide substitute and I know the children adored him. My heartfelt condolences to the Garafola family. He was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed by all.
Doris Garnhum
L F Robins Ins
September 26, 2012 9:45 am
Our thoughts a prayers are with you during this difficut time. We have fond memories of Gary!
September 26, 2012 9:44 am
To the Garafola Family-
My sincerest sympathy go out to you. I went to Holy Cross High School with Gary and was very fond of him. I worked for Garafola & Sons for several years throughout high school and college and have fond memories of Gary, his father Al and his brothers Al Jr. Patsy and David. Those were the days!
Bob Pastizzo
bobbo10s@tampabay.rr.com
The Croteau Family
Townsend, MA
September 26, 2012 9:33 am
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
By David Romano
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I’m not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
the way you did today,
While thinking of the many things
we didn’t get to say.
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
And each time you think of me,
I know you’ll miss me, too.
But when tomorrow starts without me,
please try and understand,
That an angel came and called my name
and took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready
in heaven far above,
And that I’d have to leave behind
all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
a tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I’d always thought
I didn’t want to die.
I had so much to live for
and so much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible
that I am leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thougth of all the love we shared
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
I thought, just for a while,
I’d say good-bye and kiss you
and maybe see your smile.
But then I fully realized
that this could never be.
For emptiness and memories
would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things
that I’d miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven’s gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God look down and smiled at me,
from His great golden throne.
He said, “This is eternity
and all I’ve promised you,
Today your life on earth is past,
but here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
but today will always last,
And since each day’s the same day,
there’s no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful,
so trusting and so true,
Though there were times you did some things
you knew you shouldn’t do.
But you have been forgiven,
and now at last your free.
So won’t you take my hand
and share my life with me?”
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don’t think we’re far apart,
For everytime you think of me,
I’m right here in your heart.
Shirley Sciandra
Fort Mill, South Carolina
September 26, 2012 8:27 am
I just found out and cannot believe the void this leaves in my heart. Gary, Lynn, & their children have held a special place in my heart for several years. I always look for Keith & Lee at events and could always spot Gary in a crowd of over 5000 people! He will be missed by all he has ever known. What a wonderful husband, father and friend to all. My love and prayers to Gary’s family.
Bob Champey
Concord, MA
September 26, 2012 8:06 am
I really didn’t know Gary, but I had the wonderful opportunity to have met Gary at the Beede Center in Concord about 4 years ago. It was when I was doing PT for my knee and I was in the gym during mid day hours and the gym was very quite. He made instant impact with his warm and welcoming personality. It may have been 5 or 6 times that I saw Gary that year…but I can only say that I felt like I knew him for years. I remember him being so proud of his daughter that had recently gone to school in Pittsburgh. I know having had the limited opportunity to met Gary that he made an impact on my life and I can only image how many other lives that impacted even more. He will be greatly missed.
Kevin & Denise Miller & Family
Townsend, MA
September 26, 2012 7:52 am
Out hearts are heavy for the loss the Garafola family is going through. Gary was a wonderful man…always smiling, always so proud of his family, always willing to help whomever needed it. He will be truely missed. We will remember him always, and smile.
Prayers and Love.
Madlyn Thompson
Clermont, Fl.
September 26, 2012 7:49 am
Gary and his great personality and thoughtful ways will be missed by his extended family and many friends.
Bill Cagnina
Alcott School
September 26, 2012 7:47 am
I knew gary for a short time but it did not take long to know what a kind and caring person he was. He was a friend and loved his work, and the smiles he put on the kids faces at lunch time were priceless. Gary you will be missed my friend. R.I.P. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Valerie Ford
Long Island, NY
September 26, 2012 6:20 am
Gary had one of the most wonderful smiles I have ever seen. He will be greatly missed. I shall miss him on Sandy Island and I send love to all his family in this time of sorrow.
Roland A. Gibson
Littleton
September 26, 2012 1:56 am
I did not know Gary, but my grandson was a member of the Marcus Lewis camp experience. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Roland
The Twombly Family
Townsend
September 25, 2012 10:48 pm
Love and prayers to the Garafola Family. We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband and Dad. I smile when I think of Gary, what wonderful man.
Bill & Jeanne Morrone
Brooklyn, CT
September 25, 2012 10:35 pm
Dear Lynne,
Our hearts are broken, yet certainly no more than your heart and the hearts of your children and family!
Events like this are not supposed to happen to good people! Gary had an amazing smile, huge heart,positive attitude and deep love for you and his children. He was so proud of all of you!
In times like this, when nothing seems to make any sense, Jeanne and I open our Bible. Here, God reasures us that He is in control, and that His will shall be done! That we are to “Trust” in his will, and not depend on our own limited human “understanding”.
Proverbs Ch. 3 vs. 5: Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Gary clearly “touched” so many different people in so many wonderful ways. This is what we must remember and celebrate most when we think of Gary.
Our prayers are with you and your family!
Brett , Barbara and Brian Marinaccio
Concord MA
September 25, 2012 10:17 pm
We knew him as “Mr.G. “He was our son’s bus driver..Bus #33. Little did we know he would become a major part of our everyday lives over the past 2 years….Morning greetings ..afternoon updates.”Freaky Fridays” with wild hats!. biscuits treats thrown from the bus to our ever thankful dog. a few safety bus reminders to sit “forward” but no child was ever in ” real trouble” ..smiles..and shared laughs in the driveway as the bus pulled away…will miss you Mr. G….
God Bless.. Brett, Barbara, Brian and “Dunkin”
The Apostolides Family
Peabody
September 25, 2012 10:13 pm
We are so truly sorry for such a great loss to the family of Gary Garafola. He dedicated his life to his family, his friends and his work. He left a profound mark on everyone’s heart. May his memory be eternal.
Tamara DiCesare
Concord, MA
September 25, 2012 10:07 pm
Mr. G was my daughter, Juliana’s, bus driver on Bus 33 for the past 3-4 years. We adored him. I’ll never forget how touched I was on the last day of school when I saw him with his baseball cap getting signatures from all the children who rode his bus that year. There was no mistaking his genuine affection for the children entrusted to his care. His kind and generous spirit and gregarious personality endeared him to all who came across his path. He also had a way of making each child feel special. Just last week, Gary was teasing Juliana about all the stuff she had and how long it was taking her to get off the bus. As he drove away, I said to her, “you know, you’re one of his “favorites”. She smiled in response,”I know mommy”. Yet we both knew that each child on the bus was a favorite to him. This year, as my son John started kindergarten, he was so excited to finally be able to ride Mr. G’s bus with his sister and the other “big kids” to the Willard school. I’m so terribly saddened that he only had that opportunity for about 3 weeks. Then again, we are blessed that he was able to know him even if only for a short time. As a counselor at Concord-Carlisle High School, I had the opportunity to talk with several students who knew and loved Mr. G as their bus driver or driver’s education teacher. Please know that our family is holding yours in our thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of such a special man. While there are no words that can take away some of the pain you must be feeling, we hope you can take some comfort in knowing that his life touched so many others and that there are so many of us holding you in prayer.
The DiCesare Family
Elenye German and Family
Townsend MA
September 25, 2012 10:06 pm
Although I didn’t know Gary well, I know he was a good father by watching the testimony of his 5 kids. It has always been evident how devoted all the Garafola kids were to their family. They were always kind and respectful to others, dependable, going out of their way to help others in need and always with a great and cheerful attitude, never expecting anything in return. I am not surprised that two of them were Eagle Scouts! So Keith, Lee, Kim, Paul and Jeffrey, your lives are a testimony and a reflection of your father in you. He was obviously a great man and father, and I, like others, also was shocked to hear the tragic news. Praying for all of you and your mom to have God’s perfect peace in the midst of this horribly difficult time. Paul, my mother in Oregon has fond memories of you and wanted me to tell you how sorry she is that this has happened to you and your family. Blessings to your family and condolences from all of us! The German Family
Michele Ponsart
New Bedford, MA
September 25, 2012 10:03 pm
My thoughts and prayers have been with the entire Garafola family since I saw the news. My heart is broken for all of you and we will all miss Gary so much. His smile, teasing and great sense of humor. I always looked forward hearing what Gary had to say to encourage everyone at the Auburn meetings. My love to each of you and as the days and weeks go on please cherish how much Gary has touched all of our lives.
Iannini Family
Acton
September 25, 2012 9:53 pm
Gary has been our bus driver every summer for four years. He joked with us and made us smile every single day. Gary was a part of summer. Even the family members who didn’t ride the bus knew and loved Gary. Your heartbroken students, campers and their parents will remember you Gary with love, joy, admiration and graditude. Our thoughts and deepest sympathies go out to Gary’s family.
Kelley Family
Townsend, MA
September 25, 2012 9:51 pm
Gary will be tremendously missed. We will all remember him as a good scout, a caring neighbor and a steadfast friend. What a great role model for us all – Happy and fun-loving, Gary unwaveringly loved his wife, family, friends and life itself. We treasured his visits and knew when Gary walked up our driveway, he would bring a funny hat, a contagious smile and by the time he left, we always felt better.
Nancy Knapp Piccione
Concord
September 25, 2012 9:45 pm
Mr. G drove both of my girls to Willard for two years and he was so wonderful, I wrote a letter to the transportation department two weeks after he started describing how grateful we were to have this positive force named “Mr. G” driving our bus. My sincere condolences to his family.
Kathy Low
Pepperell, MA
September 25, 2012 9:37 pm
I have so many great memories of Gary when we parents all hung out at Rozumek’s Karate, upstairs, while the kids were in class. Such a great guy, always a smile for everyone. He was so proud of his kids. Our hearts go out to you all. Much love, The Low Family
Mary Ann Stevens
Chelmsford, MA
September 25, 2012 9:31 pm
My first visit to Sandy,in 1987,Gary stood out as such a fun and humorous guy on the volley ball court. It was obvious to me what a good family man he was.
I lost my 92 year old mother this week and it was hard.
I am so sorry for the Garafola family dealing with this tragic loss of such a good man.
Al (oob -oldest older brother) and Terry
Waterbury, CT
September 25, 2012 9:20 pm
Gary was always full of life. He always made you laugh or smile. He made an impression on your heart when you met him, and he’ll be in ours forever. God bless Lynne, Keith & Jen, Lee, Kimberly, Paul and Jeffrey.
ACCUplus Financial Services, Inc.
N. Chelmsford, MA
September 25, 2012 9:11 pm
Lynne & Family, Please accept our deepest sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. We are all thinking of you and have you and the kids in our thoughts and prayers. Please know we are all here for you if you need anything.
Mary Ann & Anthony
Oakville,Ct
September 25, 2012 9:10 pm
Gary will be missed by all. My Red Sox buddy,seeing your smiling face at our family parties. Always joking and making everyone laugh.Gary was always fun to be around.We had a great time at Kieth’s wedding and at I Hop the next morning.
Lori, Fraser & Fiona
High Falls, NY
September 25, 2012 8:57 pm
We are so sad and are sending all of you our love. What a shock…it’s so hard to even imagine Gary as anything other than fully alive…full of love and fun and mischief. We feel so honored to have shared our times at Sandy with him and all of your beautiful family. Hope you can feel our love coming through from our hearts to yours.
Christopher Melby
Harvard, MA
September 25, 2012 8:56 pm
I’ve been a camper at MLDC for the past ten years, and all I can say is that only the most remarkable counselors are remembered for many years ahead. Gary is one of those counselors. Although all of the MLDC counselors are great people, Gary is an MLDC god amongst men. No one could make you smile more than Gary. He always was putting a smile on someone’s face, whether it be with a joke, a story, or his extensive collection of colorful shoes. Gary, we love and miss you.
Booth Family
Concord MA
September 25, 2012 8:53 pm
We hear the echo of Gary’s voice right now — happy, always interested in others, indignant about things that deserved it, and “fun to be around” says Dylan.
Gary presence was a gift to us, and his enthusiasm and energy rubbed off on all of us.
Our prayers are with Lynne and family.
Court, Reyne, Charlie & Dylan
Janice & Eddie Crain
W. Townsend, MA
September 25, 2012 8:23 pm
We are truly saddened by Gary’s tragedy. He was a great friend and co-worker. Always making you laugh and telling jokes. Even if he was having a bad day he still kept smiling. Always there when someone was in need of something. We will truly miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lynn, Kim, Keith, Lee, Paul and Jeff.
Betha Howell
Islesboro Maine
September 25, 2012 8:07 pm
Gary was truly a joyful and spirited man. His gentle spirit was enjoyed by many in the Sandy Island Community. The loving kindness and concern he demonstrated as a father was extended to friends and even acquaintances. I feel blessed to have known him. My condolences to the whole family. With Support and sympathy, Betha
Bill Schulze
West Townsend
September 25, 2012 7:55 pm
While I was not a close friend of Gary’s I always re- member his cheery attitude & faithful attendance to all his children at soccer games & other functions over the years. My children all have great memories of him from church to sporting avents.
We were all shocked to here of his passing. Please ac-cept our prayers to help your to heal.
Bill, Lorna, Matt, Mike & Mark
Elliot Murphy
Groton
September 25, 2012 7:52 pm
Gary was my favorite bus driver at Marcus Lewis Day Camp. He always told funny jokes and he was really nice. He made me laugh all the time. I will miss seeing him next year when I go to camp.
Elliot (9 y. o.)
Virginia DeMont and Family
Westford Massachusettes
September 25, 2012 7:50 pm
As I was reading every condolence note I fought back the tears because Gary would never want to see anyone sad. If you were he had a magic to make you feel better. A magic that was a gift from God. I worked with him the last four summers at the MLDC where my two boys also attended. As we all know Gary was a love, genuine and up lifting. You could not help but smile in his presence. It was simply impossible not to. That was his gift that we were so lucky to have touch our lives.
To his family I am at a loss for words to express to you how sorry I am for your loss. His passing makes no sense but to think he smiled enough for ten life times and is in heaven now smiling down on all the lives he touched. So if you are having a bad day just look up. He will still be here for us and you!
Todd & Kelly Arsenault
Townsend, MA
September 25, 2012 7:46 pm
Lynne, Keith, Lee, Kim, Paul & Jeffrey, we were shocked to hear of Gary’s passing! When we remember him, we can’t help but smile. He was absolutely an amazing man. All of his love, kindness and humor will forever live on through everyone’s memories of him! We’re thankful and blessed to have been part of his wonderful life through our children and scouting. I remember when I was a teenager myself, going with Lynne & Gary on ski trips to babysit Keith. The love that started between two people grew so enormously and spread through all of their children! What a beautiful family! Our hearts ache for you all but know that the love you share will provide you with the strength to move ahead! He is “home” now and although he may be sad for leaving you, he is peaceful and waiting until the days ahead when you will all be reunited!
Gail Priest
Littleton, MA
September 25, 2012 7:44 pm
I was so sad to hear of Gary’s passing. I will always remember him as a fun loving person who cared about everyone. He enjoyed life to the fullest and it is a great loss to all who knew him. He will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to his family at this sad time. RIP Gary
wendy Miller
Townsend, Ma.
September 25, 2012 7:32 pm
To Lynn and the Garafola family,
I cant even begin to tell you all how sorry I am to hear about the tragic accident that took Gary from all of you I know in my heart Lynn that you will be okay because of the love that you and Gary shared over the years has shown your wonderful children how to be a close loving family. I know you have each other to lean on in this time of grief and sorrow but please remember I am just a phone call away day or night if anyone needs anything. I luv you all
Michael Hartnett
Pepperell
September 25, 2012 7:27 pm
I was truly saddened to hear of Gary’s passing…each time I bumped into him it became a wonderful conversation of past memories and what both our families were up to..Gary’s upbeat and positive attitude was tremendous and always uplifting.
My deepest condolences to Lynn and the children.
Michael
John Graves
Boston Ma
September 25, 2012 7:12 pm
I didn’t know what to think when I first caught word of Gary’s passing. I did not think our last conversation would be the last I ever heard from Gary. He was telling me about his most recently sported shoes he had on. I spent two summers at Mirror lake where I saw Gary very regularly and no matter where he was he was putting a smile on someone’s face. I can’t even imagine next summer without him. My thoughts and condolences go out to his family.
The Perriello Family
Somerville, MA
September 25, 2012 7:06 pm
Words could never express how devastated we are to hear about this tragedy. Gary was such an amazing person! He was caring, thoughtful, spontaneous and so much fun! Gary was just such a special and genuine person. Every member of our family holds a special place in their hearts for Gary. He gave us a lifetime of memories! He will never be forgotten, and he will truly be missed. We love the whole Garafola family and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you now.
The McNamara Family
Lexington, MA
September 25, 2012 6:54 pm
We were so sad to hear of Gary’s passing. He was my daughter’s bus driver, her first summer at Marcus Lewis Day Camp and his friendly and caring nature was obvious from the first. He always met us with a welcoming smile and warm greeting. This is a huge loss for the kids and families at camp. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Erika McNamara
Gracey’s message:
I’m so sad because Gary was my favrite bus driver and Gary told really funny stories.
Irene Boiarski
Boxborough, MA
September 25, 2012 6:46 pm
Gary drove my son Matthew to Marcus Lewis Camp this summer and several summers ago. He always made my son’s mornings fun and special with his jokes, his infectious smile and his sunny disposition. I doubt Matthew can recall the names of his camp counselors from last summmer now, but he has fond memories of Gary and is still retelling his jokes (which he has shared with his classmates, friends and family members). His first question upon learning that he would be going to Marcus Lewis Camp in the summer was if Gary was going to be his bus driver. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Susan and Bob Bostrom
Kennebunk, Maine
September 25, 2012 6:41 pm
We are former neighbors from Fordway Road. We were shocked and saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Your whole family is in our thoughts.
Kris Vaz & Family
St, JOhn's Church, Townsend, MA